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feverfawn

feverfawn
Date Joined: June 15, 2013
Last Online: May 20, 2024
Birthday: November 12
Country: United States
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About Me

Welcome to my profile! ~ info updated 5/19/24


5/19/24: I'm really enjoying being back on swap-bot, even more than I expected I would. It had been over a year since my last swap and since I last had any urge or motivation to do something creative. Moving was stressful and it took that long for me to feel settled in my place and back to normal. It feels really nice to be making art and swapping again! I hope to start hosting some group swaps again very soon.

Please note that I moved last year and have a new address - it has been updated to be current on my profile!


General stuff about me!

Hello I'm Jess! In my early 30s, a part-time library employee, child-free, living with my boyfriend and our cat named Kitten - sweetest in the world! I never thought I'd have a cat before we took her in a few years ago as I was always so allergic, but over time I have adjusted and it rarely bothers me anymore. She has definitely made me a cat person! 🐈 I prefer mountains to the beach, dream of someday seeing a desert in person, appreciate solitude and quiet contemplation, and like to find beauty in strange places and small things. I don't like toxic positivity, however I try my best to focus on the good, moving forward as opposed to revisiting the past or ruminating on what I can't control or change, whenever I can.

I'm an introvert and a home-body; If I'm not at work then I'm almost certainly at home alone doing my own thing. I have a tendency to collect things and I enjoy the hunt for them whether it's at thrift stores, flea markets, or online; used books, CDs, collage material and ephemera, postcards, stickers, postage stamps and currency, indie perfumes and nail polish, little knick-knacks and treasures. I prefer a maximalist style to minimalism; all the things, leaving no space blank or empty. Too much space or emptiness makes me feel uncomfortable!

Some things I enjoy include books (reading + collecting), collage, drawing/sketching, journaling, jigsaw puzzles, meditation, all things related to dreams & altered states of consciousness, aliens!!!, conspiracy theories, thrifting, bad lifetime movies, various reality TV shows, ambient music, indie perfume (my most recent/most consuming hobby - but don't worry I won't put scent on your mail) and of course snail mail.

If you're into astrology- I am a Scorpio Sun, Capricorn Moon, Scorpio Rising, and have a 12th house stellium. My chart is heavily dominated by water and plutonian influence and I find it does describe me pretty well, though admittedly I am not so far into it as to plan my life around transits and such. I think of it more as a tool for self-discovery/understanding. I am also a metal goat in the Chinese zodiac.🐐

I'm not religious at all, but do consider myself "spiritual" - purposely leaving it vague as I don't really define it in any way. I'm very interested in altered states of consciousness, particularly astral projection and lucid dreaming as well as the in between states of sleep (hypnagogia,) all of which are spiritual experiences for me. If you happen to be similarly interested and are paired with me for a swap, feel free to share your own dreams and related experiences as I love to hear them! (To be clear, I won't make a point of talking about my spirituality unless it's relevant to a swap, something we seem to have in common, or if directly asked about it.)


Groups I Help Run!

Monsters, Myths, & Legends -- US ATC swappers

Oneironauts Only

Swapper's Paradise!


!!!ATTN swappers:

Since moving to an apartment, I now take my mail directly to the post office myself as I'm not sure how reliable the outgoing mail slot is at my complex. Before I would mark sent when I placed a swap in my mailbox, but now I'll mark sent when swaps have actually been dropped off at the PO. Swaps may be completed/dated prior to the day I am actually able to send and I may be sending closer to deadlines than I used to in order to minimize the number of trips I have to make, but I will always plan accordingly and send my swaps by the deadline!

Please, please message me if you have not received a swap from me after a reasonable amount of time! I always send my swaps, but we all know how the mail is these days and things can easily get lost or take a long time to arrive. I'm happy to resend if given the opportunity. I take photos of all my swaps so I can send the images as proof as well.

I always rate and try to do so the same day I receive; sometimes it may take me a few days, but chances are if I have not rated I have not yet received. I don't mind if you want to check in with me about ratings. I'll always message before rating if I haven't received a swap and would appreciate the same courtesy. If you know you'll be late sending a swap just let me know - I appreciate communication and will try to work with you! I will also do the same should something come up on my end.

For any swaps I am hosting I will always angel if you're flaked on after you've attempted communication with your partner and also rated appropriately ~ please contact me about any issues in my hosted swaps so I can help!

Likes/Dislikes


Swaps I Enjoy: I like simple flat mail swaps such as postcards (blank or written, but I will be focusing more on swapping naked/written postcards for now,) and letters or penpal type swaps - one off or ongoing, international and domestic, with topics or even stream-of-consciousness. I'm hoping to do more mail art swaps this year including: ATCs, handmade postcards and bookmarks, collage, decorated envelopes, and drawings or sketches. I'm open to doing private swaps for flat-mail as well as profile based/small package type swaps (US only due to postage costs) with established users that have common interests. Feel free to PM about a private swap or even just to chat! :)

Topics to Write About: If you need ideas for letter writing swaps or something to write on a postcard here's some suggestions! Tell me about a dream or a weird/unexplainable/paranormal experience you had, your favorite poem (write it out and include the title/author if you can,) the top place you'd most like to visit in the world or favorite place you've been and why, tell me about something you collect - why you collect it, how long you've been collecting and your favorite piece in the collection, what your hobbies are and what you like to do to relax, something that really fascinates you and why, tell me about a typical day in your life/where you live (or alternately, about a very untypical day for you,) talk to me about anything we have in common based on my profile or go for stream-of-consciousness writing and just say whatever comes to your mind!


Please don't feel like you need to include "extras" or anything other than swap requirements. These are just ideas to help with personalizing swaps or for profile-based swaps.

If you happen to have any space-related stamps I would be thrilled if you use them on the swaps you send me!🪐


Favorite Things

Colors: I LOVE green in any shade - my absolute favorite color. I also like cool blues and purples (especially green/blue/purple together,) golden yellows, deep reds, black (& white together,) grayscale, and rainbows or vibrant color schemes. Holographic and glow-in-the-dark are not exactly colors, but I love that sort of thing.

Animals: I like all animals in general, but my top favorites would be ducks of any kind, loons, bears (especially grizzly or panda,) all wild cats, and any kind of ocean creatures.

Postcards:
Tourist - I enjoy cards (from anywhere) with scenic landscapes, mountains, deserts, ocean views, flora & fauna, and those that depict weather (lightning, tornadoes etc) sunsets, aurora borealis, rainbows and such. I also like cards with local culture or significant places from your location. Some specific places I particularly like are the American Southwest, Blue Ridge Mountains, Alaska and Japan.

Non-tourist - Art themed (famous works & otherwise) especially Japanese woodblock prints/+other Asian art, Hieronymus Bosch, medieval and surrealist works, realistic animals, aliens & UFOs, space/galaxy themes, weird/strange/unusual however you interpret that, mythology, Ancient Egypt, lenticular/3D, and anything else profile related.

Zazzle/store-printed are always welcome and I also love handmade cards!

Tea/Coffee etc: For tea I'm open to most anything, caffeinated or decaf and herbals. I would love to try your favorite flavors! My favorites are any kind of herbal, flavored green and white teas, and earl grey. I'm not fond of "diet" teas or artificial sweeteners. For coffee, any kind is welcome though I don't have a keurig and can't use the pods. I prefer not to receive any food items other than hard candy. Preferably all in individually sealed bags please!


Music: in no particular order... Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, Iron & Wine, Emma Ruth Rundle, Queen Adreena/Ruby Throat/Katie Jane Garside, Sun Kil Moon, Red House Painters, Modest Mouse, José González, Have a Nice Life, Steve Roach, Brian Eno, and Boards of Canada. Love ambient and 90s (and early 00s) alt/rock in general.

Books/Authors: Philip K. Dick, Robert Monroe, C.G. Jung, Terence McKenna, Alan Watts, Shirley Jackson. I'm a fan of science fiction, new age/occult/esoteric weirdness, and interesting non-fiction. If you'd like to be goodreads friends, let me know! I keep that profile private, but I'm happy to add friends from swap-bot. I'm not super active on there, but do update when I'm actively reading something.

Video Games: I mainly play games on Nintendo Switch, 3DS and PC, though my laptop is a bit busted right now and not fun to use. I go through phases where I play a lot to hardly at all, but when I do play games these are what I enjoy - Animal Crossing (my favorite villager is Curt, but I like all the bear and dog villagers especially,) The Sims 3, Pokemon Legends Arceus (also played red/blue back in the day - my favorite is Psyduck, and also love Abra + all evolutions, and Gengar,) Fallout (3 and New Vegas,) Skyrim, Rune Factory 4, Roller Coaster Tycoon, Sim City. I also like to play time management cooking, word, match 3 and puzzle type games while I have the TV on in the background - games that you can zone out to basically. I'm really looking forward to the new Fantasy Life coming out on Switch this year! If you want to be friends on Switch or Steam let me know!


ABC list of likes!

A - aliens, altered states of consciousness, ambient music, animals, Anubis, aquariums, art, astral projection, astrology, astronomy, aurora borealis

B - badtz-maru, banknotes, bears, bibliomancy, bioluminescent creatures, birds, black widow spiders, bookmarks

C - capricorn, cats (wild cats especially!), coffee, coins, collage, conspiracy theories, crop circles, cryptids, cults, Curt the bear (from animal crossing)

D - deep sea, deserts, documentaries, drawing, dreams/dreaming, ducks

E - eclipses, ancient Egypt, ephemera, esoterica, ESP (extrasensory perception)

F - forests/woodlands, fractals, fridge magnets, frogs, fun facts

G - Garfield, ginkgo leaves, glow-in-the-dark things, goats/rams, green

H - handmade art, herbs, Hieronymus Bosch, history (particularly about ancient civilizations), holographic things, horror, hypnagogia

I - insects

J - jigsaw puzzles, journaling, Jupiter

K - kawaii, kelp forests, keroppi, keychains, kimono patterns

L - landscapes, letters, lifetime movies, lilies & lily-of-the-valley, liminal spaces, loons, lotus, lucid dreaming

M - mail art, maximalism, medieval art, meditation, memo sheets, mixed media, moths, mountains, Mt. Fuji, mugwort, mushrooms, mythology

N - The Nazca Lines, near death experiences (NDEs), new age topics

O - occult/esoteric topics, oceans and ocean creatures, Otagiri, ourosboros

P - paper (origami, chiyogami/yuzen, mulberry, handmade etc,) paranormal, perfume, Philip K Dick, photographs & polaroids, psychic phenomena, Pluto, poems/poetry, postage stamps (foreign or domestic, used or unused etc,) postcards, praying mantis, pressed pennies, podcasts, psychedelic themes, psyduck, pyramids

Q - quotes

R - radios & old radio shows, reading, reality TV, reptiles, Robert Monroe, rubber stamps

S - science fiction, scorpio, scorpions, sleep paralysis, space/galaxy themes, stationery, stickers, Stonehenge, sun/sunsets, surrealism

T - tarot, tea, thrifted items, tornadoes, trees, tropical fish, The Twilight Zone

U - UFOs, Ukiyo-e (woodblock prints), Unsolved Mysteries, used books

V - venus flytraps & other carnivorous plants, video games, volcanoes

W - washi tape, waterfowl, weather phenomena, weird & otherwise strange things

X - The X-files

Y - Yōkai (Japanese folklore)

Z - zener cards, zines, zodiac


Dislikes

I think I'm pretty easy to please and like many more things than I dislike, but there are some things that I don't particularly want to receive. Whenever possible I will try to pass such things on to other swappers who do enjoy them.

  • loose glitter on anything
  • any kind of holiday themes (even when in season - I just don't care for holidays; the exception being if you are not from the US and it's a holiday unique to your country or culture)
  • religious messages such as god/jesus loves you, bible or other verses etc or anything with the intention to convert or assert one belief over another (I don't mind some religious imagery from any religion if it's particularly beautiful or historically interesting)
  • patriotism or political themes/messages
  • harry potter, star wars, marvel, pixar, disney, anime or similar
  • children's items or crafts, teacher/reward or kiddie character stickers
  • food items (aside from sealed hard candy, tea or coffee)

I don't necessarily expect this to be an issue, but I want to mention it just in case - I would very much appreciate not being sent materials, letters, or postcards with mentions of dieting or weight-loss, calories/nutrition, or any sort of body dissatisfaction or even body positivity. Thank you for respecting this!


Ratings

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Comment: I love this painting - I really love Stuart Davis, more for his abstract, modernist art. I’m glad to have this one as most postcards don’t feature his early works! Thank you so much! : )
Response: Thank you for the rating + heart! My first since coming back to SB :) I'm so happy to know you liked this postcard. I just looked up the artist and was surprised to see so many lovely abstract paintings - very different to the work featured on the postcard. Hope to swap with you again!
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Comment: Thank you
lob rated for Zentangle on a Postcard on Jun 24, 2023
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Poeprincess rated for AAA: Postage Stamp March on Apr 21, 2023
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Comment: Thank you for the stamp ATC and for sending an extra! It was nice to swap with you.
stiffneck78 rated for SP: Space Postcard on Apr 6, 2023
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Comment: Thank you for a great PC! I love it. Yeah! I'm down for a private swap. PM me and we can discuss further and can set something up.
shelleym rated for OO: Dream Journal Postcards #2 on Mar 27, 2023
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Comment: Jess, thanks for the utterly surreal dream story. I haven't been able to perfect lucid dreaming (YET) but you are inspiring me!
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Comment: Thank you for the beautiful NC postcard.
sophieanita rated for Badly Drawn Pet Portraits on Mar 25, 2023
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Comment: I love the pet portrait! Thank you so much 🥰 and thank you for the stickers too.
ccmmsu rated for MM&L: Yokai ATC #2 on Mar 17, 2023
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Comment: Thank you so much for this awesome swap, Jess! I LOVE the ATC you made -- he's so creepy-cute. I hadn't heard of kameosa before, but it may be one of my favorite yokai now. I love the idea of old things developing a spirit. Thank you, also, for the super cool space/scientific postcards and notecard (and the matching space stamp). Oh, and that yokai parade washi is *amazing*!
Response: You're very welcome! Thank you so much for the nice comment and the heart rating!! :) I thought the Kameosa was such a cool yokai too, I also love the idea of common objects growing to have a spirit over time and that they're just mischievous little guys rather than malevolent. I'm glad you like the extras too and the washi on the envelope! I definitely plan to do some more rounds of the yokai ATCs so I hope we will be swap partners again soon :) take care!
Macw1975 rated for SP: Spring Doodle Postcard on Mar 15, 2023
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Comment: I love your doodles! Thank you so much for such a love postcard!
Response: You're welcome! Thank you so much for rating and the heart ~ very glad you enjoyed my spring doodle postcard :) Hope to swap again soon!
AnDark rated for Surprise me with your favorite Tea on Mar 13, 2023
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Comment: Oh wow, you got me pineapple! You got me peach! Yay! Thank you so much! I’m going to enjoy these so much :-).
Response: You're very welcome! Happy you like the flavors and will enjoy them! I was happy you were my partner because we enjoy some of the same flavors :) Thank you for rating & the heart! Hope we can swap again sometime.
craftymommaliz rated for SP: Happy Postcard Swap #1 on Mar 11, 2023
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Comment: Thanks for creating this swap! And thanks for sharing the haiku. That psychedelic cat is pretty much how it feels in my brain lately 🤣
Response: You're welcome! Thanks so much for joining the swap!! I was going through my stash and the psychedelic rainbow cat seemed perfect for this haha. I hope to swap with you again! :)
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Response: You're welcome for the teas and card 😐
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Comment: Thanks so much, Jess! I love my little caped devil holding a knife in one hand and vampire teeth in the other hand. He's too cute to put away until Halloween so he's taking up residence in my office space. =)
Response: You're very welcome!! Glad you enjoyed the little devil guy - I thought it was so cute when I saw it on your list! I hope he will bring you lots of devilish joy year round ~ Thank you for the nice rating/heart and for joining my swap!! :)
WavesofJoy rated for OO: Dream Journal Postcards #1 on Mar 6, 2023
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Comment: Thank you for the North Carolina postcard and for sharing one of your dreams. Thanks for hosting this swap, too!
Response: You're welcome!! Thank you so much for joining my group & swap and for the heart rating :)
kelliegirl6 rated for ESG: Never have I ever... #2 on Mar 1, 2023
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Comment: Thank you for sharing your answers. Picked a fight while sleeping...LOL!
Response: Thank you for rating + the heart! - Yes I couldn't believe it when they told me haha, so silly!!
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Comment: Thank you so much for the awesome PC...yes i love the beach scene and the glow is pretty cool!!...love to swap paintings if you ever want..thx again :)
Response: You're very welcome - so glad you enjoyed it! :) I will let you know whenever I get going with the painting, it would be fun to swap some small canvas paintings! Thank you for the nice comment & heart!!
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Comment: Thank you so much for the chatty, lovely notecard. I love the butterflies😍 I will for sure check out the fragrance shop on etsy, I love perfumes and finding new faves.
Response: You're very welcome! Thanks so much for the rating & heart!! I'm so glad you enjoyed the swap. I was saving that note card for so long and this was finally the right time to use it :) Thanks for joining my swap ad hope we will swap again someday!
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Comment: Jess, thank you so much for sharing your story with me! I relate so much to so many things that you said in this letter.. It truly is hard for others to understand these situations, so I am very grateful that you were so open with me about how you feel and I was able to do the same with you<3 All we really can do is take it one day at a time, and sometimes I have to remind myself of that when I am struggling. Some days it is harder than others.. but I try to remember how far I have come as well! Also, thank you so much for the little bird stickers, it made me smile so much:,) Thank you for hosting this swap as well! It felt good to be able to talk about with someone who understands<3<3
Response: I just left my rating on your profile, but wanted to respond to say I agree with all you said and also really appreciate that you were able to share with me and vice versa! That was a nice and cathartic experience for me <3 Thank you as well for swapping with me and if you ever want to do it again please let me know :) Hope you are doing well and hope we can swap again soon <3
Apelser rated for ESG: Never have I ever... #2 on Feb 22, 2023
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Comment: Thank you for your email. I enjoyed reading your answers.
Response: Thank you for rating and the heart! :)

Rating Overview

Overall Hearts Stars Hosted
5.0000 203 33 33
Completed Fives Threes Ones
191 221 0 0
Type 1 Type 2 Type 3 Uncategorized
15 117 59 0
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Comments

OrigamiGrace on Dec 25, 2023:

xmas

Have a wonderful holiday!

MuggleMom on Mar 9, 2023:

I got your glow in the dark pc and I am thinking of a good response worth reading, lol!! Going on a mini break so it may be a a bit before a reply is sent via the blue box! xx MuggleMom

theshyone on Feb 27, 2023:

Thank you for the RAK of postcards! (from the forum). I loved all of the postcards you shared, they are so fun! ( ´ ∀ `)ノ~ ♡

traceyj on Feb 24, 2023:

Hi Jess,

thanks so much for this lovely RAK of postcards! Have a terrific weekend --

Nathan Pyle Strange Planet aliens dancing

HausOfImps on Feb 14, 2023:

Whoa, almost at 200 5's... what a world!

lefroggy on Feb 7, 2023:

Thank you so much it arrived yesterday, while I was at work, it was such a good surprise to get to when i came home from work, that made my day. Everything was cute, and wonderful, thank you so much for taking the time to send out. :)

MuggleMom on Jan 1, 2023:

Wishing you a New Year full of great memories and meaningful family & friends!

xx

MuggleMom

simcoe54 on Jan 1, 2023:

Happy New Year!

HausOfImps on Dec 31, 2022:

It's the MFin new year! Woooooo!

Heirloom on Dec 31, 2022:


Happy New Year from USA Happy Mail

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