Cindymt

IMPORTANT: I returned to work and things were worse than I ever expected them to be. I am once again applying for FMLA and will make the difficult (yet easy) decision to resign. My health is more important than my job and there are plenty of jobs out there. Always remember that!

DISCLAIMER: I am human and I do make mistakes. If I made a mistake on a swap, or worse, it does not get to you at all, please email me before rating and I will resend no questions asked :) If I will be late in sending a swap I will reach out to you before the swap deadline to let you know!

I know most are not postmark sticklers here. However, mail pickup/delivery is not consistent here. They do come Monday - Saturday but anytime between 10 AM to 4 PM. There may be times I put mail in the mail box but have missed pick up because they came early that day. If the swap is postmarked a day or two later than when I sent it, that is why.

Also! If you get a swap from me and have to pay postage, please let me know! It happened once (and I do not want it to happen again!

Hey, fellow Swappers! I am Cindy, and I am a 25-year-old female from the USA. I am a former teacher who took a leap of faith and left the classroom!

I started pen paling when I was 13, and I have loved it ever since! I heard about this site back in May of 2018 and decided to join. I think I did one or two swaps then logged off for a while. I did not truly get into Swap-Bot until December of 2019 when I randomly decided to log on again while sitting at an airport when my flight my delayed! I have been hooked ever since! And I am happy to have "rediscovered" Swap-Bot by the time the lockdown took place!

Some things that are very important to me include my family, friends, my cats (Jack and Mitzi), and my boyfriend.

I am a washi tape enthusiast. I also love going to craft shops, especially Hobby Lobby where there is usually a sale on most items! Other than washi tape I also love stationary, tags, stickers, and as of recently, vintage.

I am not too artsy sadly but I am working on learning how to better decorate my letters and envelopes. It is nothing too fancy.

Now to relax after work I like to watch pen pal videos such as pen pal with me, tips and tricks, and what my pen pals sent me videos. I also scroll through swap-bot a lot! As someone who suffers from anxiety and depression, it is always good to stay busy!

I am looking forward to swapping with you all and I will stay up to date on these things! So if there's a chance your letter may have a slight delay, I will let you know ASAP! I am also 100% okay with late mail! I understand that things happen! Please just let me know ahead of time!

Lastly, I am not picky about what I get in the mail! I will never dislike it!

Have an amazing day and happy swapping!

I swap because it makes me happy and keeps me busy. As someone who suffers from anxiety and depression, it is always important to stay busy so the mean depression and anxiety do not take over!

In July of 2013, I was diagnosed with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (a form of anxiety). I have been treated for it ever since. I got off treatment for a while but then things got bad again in November of 2017. In December of 2019, I was diagnosed with Depression and I am treated for that as well.

I want the stigma of mental illness to end, or at least diminish because I am still a normal person. I work full time, I have hobbies, and friends, a relationship, and I go out. I share my story so others can share theirs. Feel free to email me if you want to share your story or just want someone to talk to! Let's get through this together!

Regarding ratings, I am not a "heart chaser." I understand not everything I send may deserve a heart and I am never offended when I do not get one. I have heard of "heart chasers" on here, so I want to make it clear I am not one.

For those of you who are interested, I have a pen pal instagram! It is @cindyssnailmail ! Follow my journey with me and I post updates on there like if i have to take a break from pen paling and other things like that.

I would love to get pen pals out of Swap-Bot, though I know it is not really for that. However, I would prefer if they are females ages 23-37! I have gotten at least one from here and would love more!

To make things easier, fill out this doc if you want to be pen pals! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oOn9XpYAkB9VXa_O-Oj2gtbsTkOryRjs8bF6HHgIyZ8/edit

Likes:

Washi Samples (I never use them, just admire them. So it is okay if you cannot send a lot)

Tea

Cats

Stickers

Tags

Labels

Disney (Especially Winnie the Pooh)

Recipes

Notecards/Envie

Handmade items

Vintage

Bookmarks

Cute Stuff

The Simpsons

Kind Words

Quotes

Letters

Books

I am okay with teacher/reward stickers

Dislikes:

Coffee

Mango Flavored things

Dr. Seuss pictures (quotes are okay)

Anything with lizards.

I want to note if I get anything from my "dislike" list, I will not rate down, but I may pass it on another swap to someone who may liked it!

07/20/23 I did not want to talk about this when it initially happened but I am ready to bring it up now. For the last few months, though I enjoy swapping and kept doing it, I started to find it overwhelming. In January, I got myself into a bad situation, and I am just trying to heal and move on from it. That is all I will say on the matter. I was also working at a charter school at the same time, and it ended up being one of the worst mistakes I have made. I was miserable there. Many other teachers were as well, as were the students. I was well liked by the students, but I always felt unsafe there and like I could not trust those who were above me. I will not go into further detail. I woke up every morning sad to go to work and I do not want to feel that way. I was also always exhausted after work and that is why I even saw the simplest of swaps overwhelming, but I kept swapping to keep a sense of "normalcy" in my life. Healing from the events of January while working in a toxic environment at the same time takes a toll both physically and mentally. I got sick more times in the past six months than I usually would have probably from everything going on. But I am happy to say I will not be returning to that school and will be teaching Kindergarten this year at what I feel will be a great school! I have also stopped stress eating and have lost 14 pounds this summer! I am happy to finally be in a great headspace again after 6 months of difficulties and just feeling great again! If any of you want/need more specifics for whatever reason, please send me an SB message!

08/29/23 I am in South West Florida and Hurricane Idalia (just became a hurricane as of this morning) may or may not pass me. The city I live in is under a State of Local Emergency. As of now, my area is not expected to get hit too badly, if at all. But that was what we expected regarding Ian last year and the situation was worse than we anticipated. Everyone in my area is keeping their eye on the weather channels to act accordingly. Hopefully I will not need to evacuate but there is a chance I will need to.

12/10/23 I am in the process of moving, but do not know when I will be officially moved in and therefore can get mail at my new address! Please message me to confirm the address to use before sending out swaps past December 15th, 2023! If the mail is sent back to you, please message me for my updated address! I will update it here as soon as my mailbox is ready!

12/19/23 I just changed my address on SB! But if you sent anything to my old address, I will be going back to my old apartment a few times a week until the end of February so I will still get your mail!

10/06/24 It has been a while since I have given an update but this is an important one. My area was just hit by Hurricane Helene and we are about to be hit by Hurricane Milton. The district where I teach has been closed for almost the whole week and we are waiting for updates. Due to the weather, I do not know how mail service will be affected. Please just keep that in mind when sending me swaps and receiving swaps from me for the next week!

11/12/24 Due to an unfortunate circumstance in my life, I will be logging off of Swap-Bot. First, I will send all RAKs and swaps I have already signed up for but will drop out of all the rest.

11/21/24 I will not log off completely but I will not be signing up for as many swaps as I usually do. I am currently on FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) from work to focus on my mental health. I am sadly once again in a toxic work environment and want to be well as well as try to get out of the environment.

11/30/24 I want to thank everyone on here for the support they gave me during this difficult time. I have started signing up for more swaps as it will keep me busy and not think about the terrible situation that recently occurred in my life. As of now, I am still on FMLA and will return to work after the New Year. Until then, I will be working on myself and getting my health back on track.

01/08/25 I returned to work and things were worse than I ever expected them to be. I am once again applying for FMLA and will make the difficult (yet easy) decision to resign. My health is more important than my job and there are plenty of jobs out there. Always remember that!

There have been probably less than a handful of people who feel the need to attack me and others for really no good reason. The sad truth of life is that not everybody is going to like me, and not everybody has the same sense of empathy as others. I think we need to remember, but also have trouble remembering, that behind the username is a real person.

But I do want to thank those fellow swappers who have been understanding and patient when "life got in the way" or I anxiously emailed them telling them a swap was going to be slightly delayed from something as simple as I needed to get more stamps to something more serious as I had a medical emergency. Thank you all who understand that we all have lives outside of this site, and personal matters happen, life happens and some things are out of our control. Thank you for knowing that behind the username is a human being with thoughts and feelings.

I have met so many amazing people here, even if our only relationship is over SB. I have met people who sent me get-well messages when they found out I was in the hospital a while ago, or one fellow member of one of the groups I am in sent me a little care package a while back. All those things may seem small but they do mean so much to me!

If I were to personally thank every person who has touched my heart on SB, we would be here forever, but you know who you are!

Thank you!