Response: I am sad you felt you needed to be so mean. I did ask for another day and then something personal happened that needed me far more than a photo swap. There are some things that happen that are terrible and make things like a swap get pushed to the back of my mind. I just hope that it doesnt happen to you and a photo swap continues to be the most important thing to you. It is only now nearly a year later that I felt ready to join in and I find this horrible comment. I think I will probably not join in on things now incase I meet other such judgemental people.